Being a new mom for the past 2 weeks has given me a new outlook on life. The emotions that have run through me are amazing. Joy, peace, happiness, sadness, frustration, tiredness, etc. As I look over the past 2 weeks I have learned some important lessons.
1. Learn to nap. I am a BAD napper. I took 1- one hour nap the whole first two weeks. And with only 1 1/2 to 3 hour time stretches a night, I was exhausted. Despite all the advice that I got prior to Jonathan's arrival, I did not nap. I would try to keep my house clean and work on all the things that I felt needed done now. Bad mistake. the tiredness eventually catches up to you and crack.
2. Don't be afraid to call for help. day 17. Last nights sleep: 3 hours from 9-12 and then up every 1 1/2 hours after that. last 4 nights about the same. I was exhausted. Jonathan was tired, and whenever I put him down, started screaming. I was crying too. I finally couldn't handle it and called my mom. She was over within 2 hours and I napped for 3 hours while she took care of him for me. I really needed the sleep. I was able to function much better the next night when he did the same thing. Now, I know.... WHEN HE NAPS, I NAP!!!
3. Don't for to eat and drink. I have found that WHENEVER I am ready to eat, he wakes up and wants to eat first. I'm learning, that immediately after I put him down for a nap I need to run to the kitchen and get some food!!!! If I don't, I find myself going all day without eating. Also, use the bathroom or shower at this time too... or those things don't get done either.
4. Enjoy the time. I love sitting there and holding my precious little guy. I know that the time is going to go fast. Its amazing how much he is growing up already, and intend to enjoy every moment of it.
So, I know I have a lot to learn... and a lot of changes are ahead of me. But if I've learned anything these past weeks, this is what's standing out in my mind at this time. I know I've learned more, but these are the most important ones right now. I am going to enjoy my time with my family. I love Nathan and Jonathan so much. God has truly blessed me.
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